In conversations with you, and myself btw, the dream of a simple, magical fix for layered, complex problems keeps coming up. It seems as though, most, if not all of us (myself included!), are on the quest for an elusive silver bullet that will singlehandedly solve our deepest challenges and deliver our goals.

THE PROMISE

Daily we are sold this idea that one thing is the solution we are looking for whether it’s the pursuit of health and fitness, growing our business, climbing the career ladder, landing the dream role, finding work-life fit, showing up with confidence, embodying resilience in times of stress and calm, etc, etc.

Every client I work with shares with me how they did ‘the thing’ that was supposed to be their silver bullet to calm, fit and healthy, confident, resilient, trusted …

“I followed the plan for six months …”
“I used the breathing technique in the course …”
“I took the pill I was prescribed …”
“I read the book …”
“I got in my rest and exercise …”
“I prepared my presentation …”
“We got a great speaker …”
“We ran a special event …”

And what followed each of these shares was a big BUT .. the results either didn’t happen or weren’t sustainable. Each of my clients has put their faith into at least one elusive silver bullet and it failed them.

THE COMPLEXITY OF CHANGE

Making change is complex and it takes a multi-layered approach.

SORRY NOT SORRY … THERE IS NO SINGLE SILVER BULLET THAT WILL DELIVER THE CHANGE YOU ARE LOOKING FOR.

Success has come for my clients, and for me personally, using a multi-dimensional approach that addresses challenges holistically:

Together we work on:

Intellect & intuition: your knowledge, experience and instincts.
Mindset: your beliefs.
Physical: your body.
Energy: your nervous system.
Connection: your relationships with self and others.

My unique 3Rs process brings all of this together to deliver real results for my clients:

The Regulate phase focuses on growing self-awareness.

The Rewire phase focuses on learning how to respond and building new habits.
The Revolutionise phase focuses on transformation through consistency.

1D VERSUS 3D

A ONE DIMENSIONAL approach limits results. It’s appealing because of its simplicity and the allure of an easy, magical fix with minimal effort BUT it lacks depth and only addresses part of the problem.

A 3D or MULTI-DIMENSIONAL approach delivers long lasting results. Peeling back the layers of a challenge gets to the heart of the issue by revealing the interplay between multiple factors. When you have the whole picture it drives greater awareness, understanding and impact.

Reflect on where your greatest successes have been personally or in your teams. Chances are that quick, silver bullet fix wasn’t sitting behind the end result!

HOW COULD A 3D APPROACH CHANGE UP YOUR RESULTS?

I am curious and would love to hear from you. Hit reply and let’s start the conversation.

CALM PRESENTER | OVERCOME YOUR FEAR OF PUBLIC SPEAKING

Book your place now on my next masterclass, it’s happening:

Wednesday 10 December, 0930-10.45 AEST
It’s a FREE session hosted live over Zoom

We will explore your challenges, then you will learn WHY and HOW my proven approach is THE most effective way to achieve unshakeable self-confidence.

If you want to silence your inner critic, feel calm, think clearly, be more productive, grow trust and show-up with unwavering confidence in any high stakes situation then register below.

The Calm Presenter masterclass will give you:

Insights into WHY public speaking creates fear in so many of us
Data, facts and science behind your reaction to this stressor
Examples of HOW small changes and simple tools have the power to TRANSFORM your performance and impact
A roadmap for change

PLUS, I will share how my Calm Presenter approach has the power to benefit you and create a ripple of results for you, your team and the whole business across performance, innovation, engagement and revenue.

This 75-minute session is designed for people leaders who want to deliver under pressure with:

Calm, centred, unshakeable confidence
Conviction and clarity
Focus and finesse
Better connection and trust
More influence

book now

I am excited to share my insights, give you some practical tools and help you transform into a Calm Presenter.

PAY IT FORWARD

If you know someone who could benefit from this transformative event please share the details with them.

FOCUS FOR THE WEEK AHEAD …

LAUNCHING A NEW INCOME STREAM

Putting the finishing touches to my beautiful (I am slightly bias!) rainforest studio so it can go live on Air BnB. Reach out if you are in need of a peaceful retreat on the NSW South Coast with the opportunity to work with me one-to-one.

GETTING IN PRODUCTION MODE

It’s time to create a new batch of my natural skincare collection Lyrebird Botanics for a local market just in time for Christmas.

END OF YEAR

Planning for 2026 so I can start in January not March!!! Who’s with me?!

I can support you, your team or organisation in a number of ways to lift results. Check out these links:

Free resource: Download your copy of my leader’s guide on how proactively

managing executive stress benefits the individual, teams and whole organisations.

Book a call: Let’s talk about your challenges and how I can help.

Breathe to Lead: 90 day nervous system reset. 1:1 mentorship for leaders. Transform your executive presence in high pressure situations using the power of your breath.

If you’ve been forwarded this newsletter and want your own copy of the Rhi-Set, sign-up here.

THE IMPOSSIBLE | A silver bullet